Instead of my wife, I was married to a large black man yet I had similar conversations as the ones I have with my wife
Dreams about being married to someone other than your actual spouse could often represent aspects of your own personality or behavior that you associate with the other person or group. The black man in this dream could symbolize power, authority, or confidence that you see in yourself or wish you had. The fact that you had similar conversations as those with your wife indicates that these conversations relate to your personal concerns and your communication style. It is possible that you are exploring new ways of expressing your feelings or viewpoints while maintaining stability within your relationship. Additionally, this dream could indicate a need for diversity and seeking new experiences in your romantic life.